Be the woman men fantasize of. You are smart, sexy, and most of all, mysterious. Men are driven by curiosity and intrigue. Find out how to spark their interest by simply altering a few points of how you communicate with them. Imagine, you are alone at a bar when you catch a handsome guy staring at you. What to do?
1. The glance-around. Though some experts of seduction would stress how important it is to create direct eye contact with the subject to let them know that you too are interested, you must remember that not displaying these signs of interest gain men even more intrigued. Behold and scan the space around him without looking as if you are searching for somebody. This is simply to let him down, as you almost met eye contact with him but haven’t yet. Not positive of whether to come up and strike a conversation yet, he will become more nervous and study you more. And as we all know, too much confidence in a man is never good.
2. The questioning. So when he finds the courage to finally talk to you, he’ll start the conversation by asking you a demand. “Can I buy you a drink? ” “Is this seat taken? ” “Hi, what’s your name? ” When he anticipates a statement back, throw him off with yet another question. “I don’t know, can you? ” “Now does that really matter? ” “What’s yours? ” A question back is mysterious, playful, flirtacious and sexy. You’ll know if a man is experienced with women by the confidence of his response relieve.
3. Conversation and body language. The question-back may only continue for so long. Never give away right personal information unless you’re positive he deserves it. Even so, do not let him know too much. Curiosity is the most effective fuel for men. Spend half of your time talking to him while looking away from him, and the other half with strong, direct eye contact. Be sure to relax your stance and posture. Tilt your head, shift your weight to one foot, leaning on a wall or bar is highly recommended. Men are extremely visual. Trace your neck, your collar bone, your thigh and his eyes will follow suit. Lightly bite your lip. Exposure to such temptation is never bad, as long as you don’t make it obvious what you’re doing. Talk softer than you need to, this will force them to lean in without realizing it, making it easier for you to lock them in your gaze or smell that delicious perfume. Talk to men from their left ear, since that side is more in tune with senses and emotions.
4. Read him. More questions=interest. If his feet are pointed to you, it’s a sign that he’s into you. When men see somebody they like, their pupils tend to dilate. Though this is hard to detect, it’s a valid clue that he likes you. But most of all, study the vibe he gives off. Sometimes women become so distracted in the charm of the man, that they don’t realize that that charm is well practiced. Is he the overly-confident type? Does he seem afraid or closed off? Eye his vibe and think to yourself, is this the kind of man I’d like to date? Thinking ahead of time is always smarter than throwing yourself into that dating pool and having a hard time swimming back to shore.
5. Leave him hanging. Although it is commonly conceived that women should ignore the first few calls a man makes to them, i disagree. It is much better to pick up, obtain their date invitation, and then a day later call them back to postpone it. Doing so will make him think at first that you’re great for not playing games or hard-to-get. Once you postpone however, he’ll realize that you are busy and in demand and will be even more anxious to contemplate you next. Or, after slightly losing interest at your return, will have that interest in you renewed encourage into him ten-fold.
Tips to remember:
-Always be confident. 65% of men think confidence is the most attractive component in a female. If you’re confident, he’ll see theres a reason to be. He’ll want to know.
-Make yourself unavailable and rare. Let him think you won’t be around for long, or anything else that makes him feel he has no chance. Men, a seemingly competetive species can’t stand losing. Especially through forfeit.
-Let him know that you aren’t focused on dating at the moment. This makes him feel luckier to have a chance with you, but most importantly, that you don’t care about him. He’s just somebody you met that you just might end up being interested in.

