Be the woman men fantasize of. You are smart, sexy, and most of all, mysterious. Men are driven by curiosity and intrigue. Find out how to spark their interest by simply altering a few points of how you communicate with them. Imagine, you are alone at a bar when you catch a handsome guy staring at you. What to do?

1. The glance-around. Though some experts of seduction would stress how important it is to create direct eye contact with the subject to let them know that you too are interested, you must remember that not displaying these signs of interest gain men even more intrigued. Behold and scan the space around him without looking as if you are searching for somebody. This is simply to let him down, as you almost met eye contact with him but haven’t yet. Not positive of whether to come up and strike a conversation yet, he will become more nervous and study you more. And as we all know, too much confidence in a man is never good.

2. The questioning. So when he finds the courage to finally talk to you, he’ll start the conversation by asking you a demand. “Can I buy you a drink? ” “Is this seat taken? ” “Hi, what’s your name? ” When he anticipates a statement back, throw him off with yet another question. “I don’t know, can you? ” “Now does that really matter? ” “What’s yours? ” A question back is mysterious, playful, flirtacious and sexy. You’ll know if a man is experienced with women by the confidence of his response relieve.

3. Conversation and body language. The question-back may only continue for so long. Never give away right personal information unless you’re positive he deserves it. Even so, do not let him know too much. Curiosity is the most effective fuel for men. Spend half of your time talking to him while looking away from him, and the other half with strong, direct eye contact. Be sure to relax your stance and posture. Tilt your head, shift your weight to one foot, leaning on a wall or bar is highly recommended. Men are extremely visual. Trace your neck, your collar bone, your thigh and his eyes will follow suit. Lightly bite your lip. Exposure to such temptation is never bad, as long as you don’t make it obvious what you’re doing. Talk softer than you need to, this will force them to lean in without realizing it, making it easier for you to lock them in your gaze or smell that delicious perfume. Talk to men from their left ear, since that side is more in tune with senses and emotions.

4. Read him. More questions=interest. If his feet are pointed to you, it’s a sign that he’s into you. When men see somebody they like, their pupils tend to dilate. Though this is hard to detect, it’s a valid clue that he likes you. But most of all, study the vibe he gives off. Sometimes women become so distracted in the charm of the man, that they don’t realize that that charm is well practiced. Is he the overly-confident type? Does he seem afraid or closed off? Eye his vibe and think to yourself, is this the kind of man I’d like to date? Thinking ahead of time is always smarter than throwing yourself into that dating pool and having a hard time swimming back to shore.

5. Leave him hanging. Although it is commonly conceived that women should ignore the first few calls a man makes to them, i disagree. It is much better to pick up, obtain their date invitation, and then a day later call them back to postpone it. Doing so will make him think at first that you’re great for not playing games or hard-to-get. Once you postpone however, he’ll realize that you are busy and in demand and will be even more anxious to contemplate you next. Or, after slightly losing interest at your return, will have that interest in you renewed encourage into him ten-fold.

Tips to remember:

-Always be confident. 65% of men think confidence is the most attractive component in a female. If you’re confident, he’ll see theres a reason to be. He’ll want to know.

-Make yourself unavailable and rare. Let him think you won’t be around for long, or anything else that makes him feel he has no chance. Men, a seemingly competetive species can’t stand losing. Especially through forfeit.

-Let him know that you aren’t focused on dating at the moment. This makes him feel luckier to have a chance with you, but most importantly, that you don’t care about him. He’s just somebody you met that you just might end up being interested in.

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If you want to secure more friends you may have to actively look for friends. Sometimes it a matter of getting out of the house and honest doing your normal everyday activities. These are good tips if you are on the dating scene.

Grocery store

The grocery store is a enormous way to meet people. You can walk down every aisle in the store and eventually you will meet someone who is consuming to talk to. This is a mammoth place for men to meet women. Once you have walked through out the entire store and up and down every single aisle make a return trip and start all over again. When you see a prospect slowly walk over and make a comment. Another great opportunity is while you are in the check out line. Sometimes the line is long and you have the opportunity to really get a good conversation going and who knows where that can lead to.

Social events

There more social events you attend the better your chances are of meeting new and exciting people. Some organizations you can join include toastmasters, rotary club, or the chamber of commerce. Become a volunteer at a local high school. Many professionals do volunteer work in their spare time. There are so many volunteer opportunities you shouldn’t have any problem finding them. Chose an opportunity that you can enjoy doing. Sometimes you can meet people while waiting in line to see a movie or at your local delicatessen. The opportunities are unlimited.

Fitness club

Join a fitness club and you will be able to meet a wide variety of people that are interested in keeping their minds, and bodies in tip shop shape. If you get involved in a number of the events you will increase your chances of meeting someone. Sometimes there are cycling classes you can join or work out fitness clubs to can participate in. Most of the time, the extra classes are free. This helps if you are on a tight budget. If you are not having any luck during a particular time frame you may want to change the time you visit the fitness center. Changing from mornings to evenings or vice versa may help you meet more people. It’s a good idea to visit several clubs before you join because one club may have the features and benefits that you are looking for. One club may have the facilities that make the club more appealing than another. Sometimes you can establish more of a rapport with instructors and personnel at one club as opposed to anther. The more comfortable you feel the better you chances of exploring all of your opportunities.

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Want to learn how to attract a Capricorn female? Here are 3 scorching hot insider tips on how to seduce the woman of your dreams!

How to Attract a Capricorn Female Tip #1

Take your time and go with the flow. Capricorn females don’t like to be rushed into situations, nor do they appreciate being manipulated into hanging out with you. Therefore it’s critical that you start things off slowly.

Don’t call her more than twice during the first week after meeting. It may even be best to wait a whole 2 weeks before asking her out on a date. However, once the ice is broken, don’t be afraid to be a little more aggressive in your persuit!

Again, don’t try to manipulate her into being with you. Just be yourself, and do what you can to make her laugh. If you can avoid appearing to be desperate, and call her up every now and then to tickle her funny bone, she’ll eventually desire to see a lot more of you.

How to Attract a Capricorn Female Tip #2

Capricorn women may appear somewhat reserved in public, but I can promise you that she has waggish thoughts rolling around in her head.

This means that you should hold off on public displays of affection, especially if you’ve only been on a date just once or twice.

You need to respect the fact that she only wants to be the center of attention when you two are alone together, and not while you’re out shopping at the mall.

However, once things begin building up some steam, don’t be afraid to coyly suggest some of your inner most desires with her. She’ll appreciate not only your honesty, but your creative side as well.

How to Attract a Capricorn Female Tip #3

Capricorn girls are all about security. They simply want to know that not only are you there for her emotionally, but physically as well.

On an emotional level, it’s important for you to listen to her concerns without trying to fix things for her. Trust me here, she just wants you to listen. Don’t be a typical guy and try to give her advice!

She doesn’t want advice, she wants a shoulder to cry on. Give her that shoulder and you’ll be seducing her in no time.

As far as physical security, the quickest draw to be noticed by a Capricorn girl is to be in above average physical shape. If you’re not in physical shape, then join a gym and start hitting the iron!

No, you don’t have to transform yourself into a Calvin Klein model. But she should know that you can protect her against the bums, creeps, and criminals of the world.

And there you have it, how to attract a Capricorn female in 3 easy steps. Remember: take your time and show that you really want to be with her. Respect that she is conservative, and avoid too much public display of affection. And finally, be there for her mentally and physically.

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Don’t worry friend, you’ve come to the honest state. I’m something of an expert on women (impartial ask your mom, ha-ha!) Seriously though, let’s get down to the brass tacks. You are lousy with broads – or else you wouldn’t be here. Well I can wait on. I could have made an infomercial with the schooling I’m about to give you, and gotten filthy rich. But I decided to post my learning here, for free, for all you poor schlubs who have always wondered what a boob feels like. Wonder no longer!

Sit back as I regale you with tales of my lusty conquests, and the lessons I’ve learned from the women I’ve copulated with. I’ve been honing these skills and techniques for several years now. To question them is madness!

The first key to impressing a sparkling woman at a fancy discotheque is your appearance. Dress like a man you would want to be gay with. Tight pants are a must – the bulge of your manhood should be evident, but not too well defined. You’re not a slut. If your bulge is *ahem* not very bulgy, do not fret! Shove something great and phallic down your pants and there you have it! Feel no guilt for such an embellishment – the women you are stalking have undoubtedly manipulated their cleavage with sculpting bras and form fitting shirts. Not to mention their adroit application of makeup, meticulously styled hair… and so on. You would be cheating yourself if you didn’t cheat.

To go with your painted-on jeans, button-up shirts are the best way to go. The top three buttons should remain unused, your manly pubis of chest hair bursting out. This is a foreshadowing of the fun to reach! Gaudy jewelry is a no brainer, particularly large gold chains, diamond studded earrings, etc. Try very hard to look like a dude from New Jersey. Liberal amounts of trendy hair-gel must be frail to sculpt your quaff into sexiness. Add multiple spritzes of some fine French cologne and off you go! The discerning woman will not find you wanting.

Okay, but it’s not all about looks. Women are not like men, falling in love with the first sexy man-bulge they see. They want passion and humor and intelligence and all this other crap that obviously you don’t have or you wouldn’t be reading this article.

You have a few options. First, you could try the “Strong, Silent” type. Popular mythos would have you believe this is a disposition many women find maddeningly sexy, that your simple presence may be enough for them to soak their panties. Well friends, I have never found this to be the case. Quite the opposite. Peaceful people are usually idea of as weak and stupid behind their backs. I cannot recommend this approach.

Here’s what you do. Eyeball a woman at the club. Make sure she catches you looking at her with lusty eyes. Make your way towards her.

I like to use a nice, flirty pickup line at this point, something like “Hey, do you know how much a polar bear weighs? ”

“No,” she’ll answer.

“Enough to break the ice. I’m John,” I say, sticking out my hand for a nice firm shake. Next, I offer to let her buy me a drink, to let her know I’m down with the whole Women’s suffrage movement of the 60′s and all that (I’m not really, I just like free drinks). Women are stupid. They will often descend for this and get you a drink. Order something manly and expensive like vodka with just a splash of cranberry juice.

At this point the girl should be puddy in your hands. Tell her about yourself. Women love to listen to men talk about themselves, it’s a fact. Tell her about the model command you’re working on, or how your fantasy football commissioner is being a total dick, or your rank in Halo, or that lunker of a bass you caught a few weeks back. It’s all deadly.

Now it’s time to seal the deal. Grab your broad by the hand. Gaze into her eyes like they’re as deep and infinite as space eternal. Let her know how you feel. That you can’t bear the thought of going to bed without her tonight. And you need her so much closer. Blah blah blah. Watch some lame Soap Opera to help hammer out the purple dialogue.

But guess what my friend? She will be yours!

There you go, the most bullet-proof way to bed a beauty from the nightclub. You are welcome. Please name your children after me.

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Many guys don’t know how to approach women. They often hear the answer no and don’t know what is the reason behind the rejection. They get really nervous at the just the thought of talking to a women. Now the reason for this isn’t that you aren’t generous looking or wealthy. In truth it is because men have no self-confidence women can sense this from your body language.

Men tend to get nervous when they are approaching women and this tends to build the location worse. You have to look comfortable and self-confident with yourself as you will look valueless next to someone who does have self-confidence. Therefore self-confidence is the key to successfully approaching a woman and making an impression. If you have low self-esteem, you will have to change your mind set in order to change your attitude.

The way you can change your mindset is by saying positive things about yourself daily. You have to keep doing this until your sub-conscious believes it and your confidence starts to grow. This is the truth, try it and see how well it works. You have to truly believe in yourself in order to make women really savor you.

You have to forget what you are doing, this means that you have to forget that you want to approach women and get phone numbers. Rather you should concentrate on building rapport. In order to do this and gain confidence you could try approaching stranger’s not unprejudiced women and ask for directions. After a while you can move to the next step of approaching women.

If you truly want to be successful in approaching women you have to change yourself. Women will never approach you and ask for your phone number, they usually sit and wait for someone enchanting to approach them. Therefore you have to change the way you think and change yourself so that you can have more success with approaching women. It is all in your mind, you have to think determined in order to be positive.

Being shy will not help you get that beautiful woman’s phone number. Being shy and the lack of self confidence are the most important factors that need to be worked on if you want to be successful in approaching women. If you keep thinking negative thoughts every time you want to approach a woman, and keep thinking of the worse outcome, you will make yourself even more nervous.

Don’t let anything get in your way and most importantly don’t stop trying. You will be faced with rejection but that doesn’t mean that every woman you meet with reject you. With the tips mentioned in this article, you can build your self confidence so that you can be successful in approaching women and asking for phone numbers.

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